Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Year 2009

New year is just around the corner. Although, today is already a new year for the muslim calendar.

I wish to leave all the bad memories in year 2008 behind and never look back. Need to work harder to survive in year 2009.

Always pray for the best for all of us in the year 2009.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Everything happens for a Reason

Sometimes people come into your life

and you know right away

that they were meant to be there

to serve some sort of purpose,

teach you a lesson or help figure out who

you are or who you want to become.


You never know who these people may be

but you lock eyes with them, you know that

very moment that they will affect your life

in some profound way.



And sometimes things happen to you

at the time that may seem horrible,

painful and unfair, but in reflection

you realize that without overcoming

those obstacles you would never realize

your potential, strength, will power or heart.



Everything happens for a reason.

Nothing happens by chance or

by means of luck.

Illness, love, lost moments of true

greatness and sheer stupidity all

occur to test limits of your soul.



Without these small tests,

life would be like a smoothly paved,

straight, flat road to nowhere safe

and comfortable but dull and

utterly pointless.



The people you meet affect your life.

The successes and downfalls that you

experience can create whom you are,

and the bad experiences can be

learned from.

In fact they are probably the most

poignant and important ones.


If someone hurts you, betrays you or

breaks your heart, forgive them

because they have helped you learn about

trust and the importance of being cautious

to whom you open your heart.



If someone loves you, love them

back unconditionally,

not only because they love you, but

also because they are teaching you

to love and open your heart

and eyes to little things.


Make every day count.


Appreciate everything that you possibly can,

for you may never experience it again.



Talk to people whom you have never

talked to before, and actually listen.


Let yourself fall in love, break free

and set your sights high.

Hold your head up because you have

every right to.



Tell yourself you are a great individual

and believe in yourself,

for if you don't believe in yourself,

no one else will believe in you.


Create your own life and then go out and live it.



Share this with anyone whom you believe
has made a difference in your life!



"If you take your eyes off your

goals, all you see is obstacles."





10 June 2007

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Whatever..!!

Life.. life.. life...

Last Sunday, I went to my cousin's wedding. Yeah, but I can't see her face as she'll make me hate her more and more each day. I've a bunch of reasons to hate her face. So, why in the world would I bother to go to her wedding?? Her mother.. I pity her mother... That's why I am there at that day.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Thinking.. thinking... thinking...

Haha... I am still thinking about my Darling's project? To be a Revell stokist. It might be mine too.

Abang Bad suggest us to open a shop as there is no stokist in Simpang Renggam and there are quite a lot of Revell's product user there. It's just that they don't want to travel far just to get the products in Kluang.

I am thinking of being a mobile stokist first. Later on we'll upgrade it if it is a money-spinner.

My younger bro, Idris, told me to open a computer shop. It's also a very good idea as we're all computer literate. My father also good at repairing computers. He said maybe we could collaborate and make it as a family business. Well, we do need a lot of funds to open a computer shop. Also need a supplier to supply the computer parts. After that, we need to think on how to make income which means we need a project to get incomes every months and every years.

I am also thinking of opening a bakery shop? Or maybe I could sell my Marble cake online? Uncle Razak really likes the Marble cake I made. Hehe... I did give his daughter my recipe. But he still crave for my Marble cake.

Hmm... Stil thinking, thinking and thinking...

Friday, October 10, 2008

Deep inside me..

I felt frustrated... I've tried... I strived to change our life still it's like this..

I'm bored... Tired... Disappointed... Depressed...

Lucky me to have a friend who can listen...

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TORH: Ili dear, getting depressed because of money is okay, since 95% of the people in the world is having the same situation.

TORH: Be grateful that you are not being jailed for debt problem..!

TORH: Syukur that you still alive, kicking and having the family with you.

TORH: Just imagine there are people who have to sell their children for a bowl of rice.

TORH: Or couple who is childless for more than 13 years..?

TORH: All, have the same purpose in life...

TORH: it is to get on living.

TORH: How, that's depend to the individual.

TORH: Some may do the hard way, some may get the easy ones.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

My 2008 Hari Raya.

Started working today after a long Hari Raya holiday. Malas betul rasenyer. Felt sooo tired. Working like hell before Hari Raya. Tidy the house, rearrange the kitchen cabinets, cooking the dishes for Raya and more.

During Raya, we need to visit all of my IL relatives. Can't even miss one accept for my side. Feel a bit sad to think about it.

There's a phrase that I'll never forget this Raya cause it hurts my feeling.I heard it about 3 to 4 times on the 6th day of Raya.

Monday, October 6, 2008

A quote to share..

Here is a quote I found in a novel I've read. I just want to share it with others. Think about it okay...

" Cinta tidak indah selepas berkahwin kerana manisnya sudah diambil sewaktu di alam percintaan.

Ada orang mengambil sikit-sikit, ada orang mengambil kesemuanya. Jadi apabila manisnya sudah tiada, apa lagi yang hendak dinikmati?

Kemudian, kalau sewaktu bercinta semuanya sudah ditanyakan, jadi setelah berkahwin, tidak ada apa-apa lagi yang hendak ditanyakan. Semuanya sudah diketahui. Takkanlah hendak ditanya perkara yang sudah tahu? Lama-lama rumahtangga menjadi sunyi dan sepi." ~ Dr. Tuah

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Raya Raya Raya...!

Haha... As usual, everything is not going as in our schedule.

Today, we went to Shah Alam to Aunty Ika's house. She is organizing a Kenduri Doa Selamat for Izzati as she is going to further her studies in Egypt.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

A friend is coming over...

Today, we're going back to my hometown, Muar. All of my cousins were already back to Subang Jaya. Only Uncle Chik, cousin Nisha, Aunty Tunn & Atok is waiting for us. You know, we hardly meet these days and Hari Raya is the only day we could meet all of our cousins, aunties, uncles and Atok.

Actually, they were waiting to meet the little ones. Hehe...

My colleague, Azlan is coming down from Melaka with his sweetheart. We had a really nice chat and mostly were about our work.

Thank you, Azlan & Kak Ayu.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

2nd Day Raya.

My Darling is still working till 10 pm and I took care of my children at home. Need to pack all the children's needs to go back to our hometown. Couldn't pack anything untill my Baby is back home.

We're going back to his mother's place first this year.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

1st Day Raya.

I am celebrating my Eid Mubarak in Johor Bahru with my own family as my heartknob is working on the 1st & 2nd day of the Eid Mubarak. We've celebrated in JB for the 2nd year now.

He did help me cutting all the vegetables needed for the menu he wants. As usual on the 1st day of the Eid, he like to eat ketupat, lodeh, rendang, sambal kacang & ayam masak merah.

At night, after my heartknob finish his work, his friends will come over to our house. Hehe... It's not happening celebrate Eid Mubarak in a big city as all the citizen were celebrating it at their own hometown.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

THINKING OUT OF THE BOX

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Q. How can you drop a raw egg onto a concrete floor without cracking it?

A. Concrete floors are very hard to crack!


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Q. If it took eight men ten hours to build a wall, how long would it take four men to build it?

A. No time at all it is already built.


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Q. If you had three apples and four oranges in one hand and four apples and three oranges in the other hand, what would you have?

A. Very large hands. (Good one)


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Q. How can you lift an elephant with one hand?

A. It is not a problem, since you will never find! An elephant with one hand.


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Q. How can a man go eight days without sleep?

A. No Probs , He sleeps at night.


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Q. If you throw a red stone into the blue sea what it will become?

A. It will Wet or Sink as simple as that.


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Q. What looks like half apple ?

A : The other half.


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Q. What can you never eat for breakfast ?

A : Lunch and Dinner.


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Q. What happened when wheel was invented ?

A : It caused a revolution.


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Q. Bay of Bengal is in which state?

A : Liquid


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ONE EXTRA SHOT


Interviewer said "I shall either ask you ten easy questions or one really difficult question.


Think well before you make up your mind!" The boy thought for a while and said, "my choice is one really difficult question."


"Well, good luck to you, you have made your own choice! Now tell me this.


"What comes first, Day or Night?"


The boy was jolted into reality as his admission depends on the correctness of his answer, but he thought for a while and said, "It's the DAY sir!"


"How" the interviewer asked,


"Sorry Sir, you promised me that you will not ask me a SECOND difficult question!"


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Thursday, September 18, 2008

If I Ain't Got You - Alicia Keys

Some people live for the fortune
Some people live just for the fame
Some people live for the power yeah
Some people live just to play the game
Some people think that the physical things
Define what's within
I've been there before
But that life's a bore
So full of the superficial

Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you

Some people search for a fountain
Promises forever young
Some people need three dozen roses
And that's the only way to prove you love them

And in a world on a silver platter
And wondering what it means
No one to share, no one who truly cares for me

Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you

Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you

If I ain't got you with me baby
Nothing in this whole wide world don't mean a thing
If I ain't got you with me baby

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Kasih sayang mengikut bulan lahir........

Januari
- Mudah jatuh cinta.
- Mudah melupakan perasaan cinta terhadap orang yang dicintai sekiranya dikhianati.
- Pandai mengambil hati pasangannya.
- Selalu berdiam diri ketika bertemu dengan pasangannya.
- Bersikap romantik tapi tidak pandai memperlihatkannya.
- Sikap cemburu yang tinggi terhadap pasangannya tapi tidak kisah sekirannya pasangannya cemburu terhadapnya.
- Bakal jadi seorang bapa atau ibu yang penyayang.
- ramai kenalan, sedikit pemalu dan bersungguh-sungguh bila melakukan kerja
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Feb r uari
- Sukar untuk jatuh cinta .
- Amat hormat kepada pasangan.
- Amat suka memikat pasangan.
- Jujur dan berterus terang dalam perhubungan.
- Sentiasa nekad untuk bersama dengan pasangannya
- Sangat romantik pada dalaman dan bukan pada luaran(hanya pasangannya yang tahu) .
- Patuh kepada pasangannya dan selalu menjaga hati pasangan.
- Amat menjaga penampilan diri dan pasangannya.
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Mac
- Mudah menawan hati pasangannya.
- Sentiasa ingin didampingi oleh pasangannya.
- Sangat pemalu dalam meluahkan isi hati.
- Sangat baik dalam menjaga perhubungan.
- Amat sukar melupakan pasangan yang dicintai.
- Perasaan cemburu yang minima.
- Sangat manja dan sering ingin dimanjai pasangannya.
- Mudah memilih pasangan tanpa berfikir dengan waras.
- Sentiasa mengharapkan keistimewaan dari pasangan.
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April
- Individu yang amat sukar untuk jatuh cinta.
- Selalu memendam perasaan terhadap individu yang dicintai.
- Sukar dan malu dalam meluahkan isi hati.
- Sentiasa ingin diberi perhatian.
- Amat cemburu dalam perhubungan.
- Kesetiaan teguh terhadap pasangannya.
- Emosi cepat terusik dan mudah terluka.
- Sentiasa menjaga hati pasangan dan pandai memujuk.
- Romantik dan terlalu romantik.
- Sukar melupakan pasangan walaupun dilukai.
- Sukar berlaku curang dan amat menyayangi pasangan.
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Mei
- Amat mudah jatuh cinta.
- Baik dan jujur dalam perhubungan.
- Pandai menarik hati pasangan.
- Perasaan cinta yang mendalam.
- Mudah untuk di pujuk.
- Mudah menerima cinta seseorang.
- Pilihan yang tepat dalam berpasangan.
- Nekad untuk menjaga hubungan yang baik.
- Pandai mengatur hidup pasangan (bukan Queen Control atau King Control) .
- Suka mengangankan sesuatu yang indah bersama pasangan.
- Sentiasa dahagakan kasih sayang dari pasangan tapi tak pandai memperlihatkan.
- Ambil berat dalam menjaga hubungan.
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Jun
- Amat pandai menjaga hati pasangan sekiranya dia perempuan.
- Sukar melukai dan memahami hati pasangan.
- Mudah jatuh hati tapi terlalu memilih.
- Cerewet dalam hubungan.
- Selalu beremosi.
- Mudah merajuk dan mudah di pujuk.
- Selalu melindungi pasangan dari kritikan atau umpatan orang.
- Elok untuk menjadi Ibu yang baik.
- Dahagakan pujian dari pasangan.
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Julai
- Amat suka didampingi pasangan.
- Sukar dimengerti oleh pasangan.
- Sentiasa menjaga maruah diri, pasangan dan perhubungan.
- Amat mudah dipujuk dan berterus terang.
- Amat menghargai kesetiaan pasangan.
- Mengambil berat dan mengasihi pasangan
- Berkebolehan untuk meluahkan isi hati terhadap individu yang dicintai.
- Mudah terluka dan lambat untuk pulih.
- Suka merajuk dan dipujuk.
- Setia terhadap pasangan.
- Suka mendengar dan tidak suka membantah.
- Cemburu terhadap pasangan.
- Suka menilai dan menjaga perhubungan.
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Ogos
- Pandai memujuk pasangan
- Suka memimpin pasangan.
- Romantik, Pengasih dan Penyayang.
- Kelam kabut dalam perhubungan.
- Sangat sensitif .
- Mudah meluahkan kata cinta pada sesiapa yang berkenan.
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September
- Bersopan dalam hubungan.
- bertolak ansur terhadap pasangan.
- Suka mengkritik pasangan.
- Sangat prihatin terhadap pasangan.
- Sangat sensitif dan emosi.
- Pandai memahami pasangan.
- Kurang menunjukkan perasaannya terhadap pasangan.
- Sukar melupakan sekiranya hati terluka.
- Mudah simpati dengan perasaan dan masalah pasangan.
- Pandai menyimpan perasaan.
- Suka berterus terang jika perkara itu tak disetujuinya.
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Oktober
- Amat suka berkomunikasi dengan pasangan.
- Suka disayangi dan menyayangi pasangan.
- Sopan terhadap pasangan.
- Jujur dan jarang berpura-pura dengan pasangan.
- Mudah terluka hati sekiranya pasangan ada melakukan kesalahan terhadapnya.
- Emosi yang mudah terusik.
- Pengasih, Penyayang terhadap pasangan.
- Cemburu dan terlalu cemburu.
- Romantik
- Memahami pasangan.
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November
- Cermat dan teliti dalam menjaga perhubungan.
- Amat berahsia dengan pasangan dan sesiapa.
- Agak degil dan kuat pendirian.
- Mudah ambil berat terhadap pasangan.
- Emosi yang mendalam.
- Perangai tidak dapat diramal terhadap pasangan.
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Disember
- Pemurah terhadap perhubungan
- Mudah jatuh cinta dalam masa yang sama.
- Tergesa-gesa dalam perhubungan
- Suka didampingi oleh pasangan.
- Benci bila dikongkong.
- Berbakat untuk kahwin lebih dari satu.(Utk Lelaki)
- Suka mempengaruhi pasangan

Saturday, September 13, 2008

12 ways you know you like Someone!!





TWELVE:You have been talking to them late at night and even when u go to bed, you still think of them.


ELEVEN:You walk really slow when you're with them.


TEN:You feel shy whenever they're around.


NINE:You smile when you hear their voice.


EIGHT:When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.


SIX:They're all you think about.


FIVE:You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.


FOUR:You would do anything for them, just to see them.


THREE:While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.


TWO:You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number seven was missing


ONE:You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.




NOW MAKE A WISH. YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO......

Friday, September 12, 2008

Pesanan buat wanita...

Pesanan ini ditulis oleh :Ulama muktabar
(Pemberian ikhlas dr sahabat kepada sahabat)

1. Jaga solat pada awal waktu. Kalau datang haid sekalipun jika tidak dapat solat, kena duduk atas tikar sembahyang supaya anak tidak lihat kita meninggalkan solat.

2. Hidupkan Bacaan Hadis Nabi saw di rumah dengan keluarga. Dianjur baca Hadis Fadhilat Amal. Ini amalan sahabiah zaman Nabi saw sehingga dari rumah kita keluar anak-anak yg soleh yg mendoakan kesejahteraan kedua ibubapa dunia/akhirat.


3. Baca Al Quran setiap hari walaupun hanya 8 ayat. Kalau tak mampu nak baca kerana terlalu sibuk, cukup dengan mencium Al Quran dan muhasabah 'Ya Allah, apa dosa saya hingga saya tak dapat nak baca kitab Mu pada hari ini."

4. Mendidik anak secara Islam. Mengajar anak-anak dari kecil bermula dengan doa-doa masnun.Iaitu doa seharian Nabi saw saperti doa tidur, bangun tidur, makan dan
sebagainya.

5. Hidup sederhana dengan tidak membebankan suami.
Setiap hari malaikat akan menghantar 500 jambangan bunga dari syurga untuk wanita yg hidup sederhana. Setiap titisan air masakan dan basuhan mereka akan menjadi zikir mohon keampunan kepada Allah swt atas wanita tersebut.

6. Galak suami untuk bermujahadah atas Agama Allah.
Seorang isteri yg menggalakan suaminya untuk solat berjemaah di Masjid/Surau akan dapat pahala berjemaah suaminya termasuk solat dia sendiri.

Mudahan-mudahan ulasan ringkas ini bermanfaat.
Muzakarahlah bersama teman wanita lain supaya hakikat amalan ini masuk dalam hati kita dan mudah nak amalkan...

New Skill...

I just learn how to sew baju kurung with my MIL. Haven't finish mine yet and my hubby already asked me to sew his baju melayu. He said,"Tahun ni dapat la merasa baju yang Mama jahitkan."

I need to finish my sewing otherwise my lovely husband and my cute little son can't wear their new baju melayu for raya.

Funny to think about it... Don't know how the baju melayu will look like when I'm done. Hope it'll fit them as it should. Hehehe...

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Can a family man with Salary RM3,000 survive in Malaysia ???

Let ' s do some simple calculations here.

In Malaysia , the average family income is RM3,000 /month
(where father works, mother doesn ' t).


I understand there are many families whose monthly income does not reach RM3,000,
but, to make things simple, let ' s take RM3,000 as the figure. Ok lah, right?

Okay, let ' s start rolling with a family which has Papa, Mama, 1 daughter and 1 son. Ngam-ngam ......

Calculation starts...

> > > Electricity and water bill: RM100
> > > (No air-con, No home theatre, No water heater ... ok?)

> > > Phone bill ( Telekom): RM100

> > > Meals for a happy family: RM775
> > > (3 meals on RM25/day, RM25 for 4 persons...?)

> > > Papa makan / teh-tarik during working hrs: RM155
> > > (RM5/day, RM5 ... can eat what?)

> > > Car repayment: RM400
> > > (A proton saga aeroback, 7 yrs repayment)

> > > Petrol (living in city, traffic-jam): RM300
> > > (go to work, bring son to school, only can afford one car running)

> > > Insurance: RM650
> > > (kids, wife and myself)

> > > House repayment: RM750
> > > (low cost housing repayment for 30 yrs, retired still have to work to pay!)

> > > Tuition: RM80
> > > (got that cheap meh? i don ' t think so)

> > > Older children pocket money @ school: RM20
> > > (RM1/day, eat bread?)

> > > School fees: RM30
> > > (enough ah?)

> > > School books and etc: RM100
> > > (always got extra to pay in school)

> > > Younger children milk powder: RM50
> > > (cannot have the DHA, BHA, PHA one, expensive)

> > > Miscellaneous: RM100
> > > (shampoo, rice, sauce, toilet paper)

Oh wait!!! I have to stop here, so...

No Astro,
no movie @ cinema,
no DVD,
no CD,
no online,
cannot KFC,
cannot McDonald,
cannot go Park walk during weekend (petrol expensive),
no chit chat on phone with grandparents, and etc...

Let ' s use a calculator to total up... WALAO EH! Shit! RM3,610 already...

EPF belum potong, income tax lagi........oledi RM3,610 ...

How to survive lah tuan-tuan dan puan-puan sekalian ???

Wanita Ciptaan Istimewa ...

Kecantikan seorang wanita ialah terletak sejauh mana ia dapatmenahan(menjaga) malunya, sementara kegagahan seorang lelaki ialah terletaksejauh mana ia dapat menahan (menjaga) marahnya.....

Orang yang membujang adalah orang yang belum menemukan penghibur dukadan dia baru memperolehinya dengan berkahwin.

Suami adalah orang yang mencari kebahagiaan hidup dengan menghilangkan sebahagian kemerdekaannya.

Wanita menghadapi banyak permasalahan; sebahagian diatasi dengan berkahwin dan sebahagian yang lain diatasi setelah dia masuk ke liang kubur.

Mata yang paling indah tetapi juga harus diwaspadai adalah mata kaum wanita.

Jangan menyalahkan perasaan isteri anda kerana perasaannya yang terbaik ialah ketika ia menerima anda sebagai suami.

Perawan tua ialah wanita yang kehilangan kesempatan menyusahkan seorang lelaki.

Yang diinginkan seorang gadis dari dunia ini hanyalah seorang suami,dan apabila ia sudah memperolehinya, ia menginginkan segala-galanya.

Wanita bisa memaafkan suatu pengkhianatan suaminya, tetapi dia tidak bisa melupakannya.

Kecantikan wanita tidak bererti apa-apa dibandingkan dengan kemuliaan akhlak dan perilakunya.

Sebelum kahwin, wanita hafal seluruh jawaban dan sesudah kahwin, ia hafal seluruh pertanyaan.

Barangsiapa mengahwini wanita kerana hartanya, maka dia telah menjual kemerdekaannya.

Wanita adalah bintang dan pelita bagi lelaki. Tanpa pelita, lelaki bermalam dalam kegelapan.

Wanita lebih cepat daripada lelaki dalam menangis dan dalam mengingatkan peristiwa yang menyebabkan dia menangis.

Wanita tertawa bila ia mampu dan menangis apabila ia menginginkan sesuatu.

Pudarlah kebahagiaan seorang wanita jika ia tidak mampu menjadikan suaminya teman yang termulia.

Wanita sangat berlebihan dalam mencintai dan membenci, dan tidak mengenal pertengahannya.

Wanita selalu tergolong manusia halus dan lembut sampai saat dia berkahwin.

Tidak mungkin seorang lelaki hidup bahagia tanpa didampingi oleh isteri yang mulia.

Wanita hidup untuk berbahagia dengan cinta, sementara lelaki mencintai untuk hidup berbahagia.

Kebijaksanaan wanita terletak di dalam hatinya.

Seorang wanita yang bijaksana menambahkan gula pada kalimatnya setiap kali berbicara dengan suaminya, dan mengurangi garam pada ucapan suaminya.

Cincin perkahwinan adalah cincin termahal di dunia, sebab mengharuskan pemberinya mengingatkan harganya setiap bulan tanpa henti.

Sesungguhnya tidak ada wanita yang sangat cantik, yang ada ialah kaum lelaki yang sangat lemah bila berhadapan dengan kecantikan.

Bagi lelaki, yang terakhir kali mati ialah jantungnya dan bagi wanita adalah lidahnya.

Wanita tidak diciptakan untuk dikagumi semua lelaki tetapi sebagai sumber kebahagiaan seorang suami.

Pada waktu bertunang, lelaki banyak berbicara dan perempuan mendengarkan. Pada saat perkahwinan, perempuan berbicara dan pengantin lelaki mendengarkan. Sesudah perkahwinan, suami dan isteri banyak berbicara dan para jiran tetangga mendengarkan.

Setiap wanita mempunyai dua mata. Adapun wanita yang cemburu berlebihan mempunyai tiga mata. Satu di sebelah kanan, satu di sebelah kiri dan yang ketiga diarahkan kepada suami.

Wanita pada umumnya takut akan tiga hal : tikus, munculnya uban dan wanita-wanita cantik yang menjadi saingannya.

Isteri yang bersikap jujur dan setia kepada suami meringankan setengah beban kehidupan suaminya.

Seorang wanita menghadapi kesulitan apabila ia berada di antara lelaki yang dicintainya dan yang mencintainya.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Akasia: Sutera Maya

Story of 4 sisters, Maya Medina, Maya Zulaika, Maya Karina & Maya Sofea who are from different mothers with different personalities. The death of her Mother led the eldest sister Maya Medina in search of her other siblings and unite them together in search of their father. Elated to finally meet their father, they were shock to find out that there were more mysteries in him to be untold.

Cast : Fasha Sandha (Maya Medina), Intan Ladyana (Maya Karina), Ayu Raudhah (Maya Zulaikha), Faezah (Maya Sofea), Mustapha Kamal, Erry Putra, Maria Farida, Liza Abdullah, Fouziah Gous, Irfan, Rebecca Nur Al-Islam

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New Staff In The Office.

Owh, almost forget to write about my new friend at work... Kelvin Ling is here for 1 month now. He's the new staff replacing Wong LK and he's the Assistant Manager for JB branch.

He is friendly, nice and easy to discuss anything with him. Still, he's rarely around coz he has to go out to attend our customers needs.

I hope he like to work here.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Spinning around and round...

Well, Raya is coming... All the government sector's staffs will get their bonus. That is only for the govenrnment staff. They are so lucky. Unlike us who work in the private sector. We've to strive to live and work like hell. It's not easy to get a bank loan too.

For me, life is still the same... Not much has been changed since last year.

Tired to think about it. Sometimes it makes me very sick. But, I always pray that we'll have a very good life.

There are times I really miss my childhood. If only I could turn back time.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Ramadhan is here again...

The fasting month is here again.

I manage to be in Muar on the 1st of Ramadhan. Idris was already there. My darling is back in the evening, 2 hours before we break the fast. Break the fast with my family members in Muar. It's a complete family as everyone is there.

Last 30th Aug, my MIL is organizing a kenduri for my late FIL.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Mengapa WANITA sangat Istimewa......???

Mama dan Papa sedang menonton TV, seraya mama berkata.
"I letih la..dah lewat ni, I nak tido lah...."

Mama pun pegi dapur nak tutup tingkap dapur, nanti masuk pulak lipas. Leceh pulak nanti. Dah tu, ade pulak rice cooker dalam sink. Rendam lepas makan tadi. Basuh jap. Susun pinggan kat rak, lap dapur.. Terpercik kena sambal masa masak tadi.

Check air panas dalam flusk. Takut habis pulak nanti malam anak nak susu. Memang dah kering pun flusk ni, jerang la air. Sementara tunggu air masak, nampak pulak bekas gula dah kosong. Salin la gula.

Check bubur untuk anak nak hantar ke taska esok. Nasib baik ade lagi. Ishh... Ni lauk bila ni, semalam... Dah beku dah. Basuh la kejap.

Pegi yard, masukkan baju kotor dalam mesin basuh. Penat dah ni, besok je la basuh. Sidai kain lap je lah. Tik... Bunyi air dah masak. Salin air dalam flusk. Ok settle.

Baru teringat tak semayang lagi. On da way nak g bilik, papa tgk tv lagi. Nampak pulak beg anak untuk hantar ke taska. Check, baju 2 pasang, towel, towel kecik utk selsama, calamine lotion untuk sapu ruam, pampers 4 keping... Alamak, telupa pulak masukkan botol. Basuh botol jap. Ok settle.

Ternampak pulak beg g keje. Emm, besok nak pakai beg polo coklat lah, asik2 pakai beg hitam ni je. Salin jap barang2 g beg coklat. Cek sume 6 poket beg, takut la tetinggal apa2. Leceh pulak. Selalunya barang yang tertinggal tu la yang nak pakai nanti. Hishhh sempit la beg ni. Hangin je. Nak kena beli ni beg baru. Rasenya 25 hb ni Sogo sale nih. Mana flyers tadi ek? Ha ni die. Ok, catit jap kat yellow sticker, nanti lupa. Ok settle.

Tetiba dengar suara papa... "U buat apa lagi tu..tadi kata nak tido."
"Yelah nak tido la ni. Nak smayang jap...'

Masuk toilet. Buat apa2 yang patut. Cuci muka dulu. 2 jenis lak tu. Adoi.. gosok gigi, smayang, pakai toner, pakai treatment cream. Nak lawa and maintain punya pasal lah ni. Nanti orang kata baru anak satu dah macam anak 4 pulak.

Huhuhuhu... bukak almari. Emmm, pakai baju hijau ni lah besok. Gosok kejap. Check baju papa, baju papa pun kena gosok jugak ni.

Kat bilik belakang. La, napa komputer ni tak tutup ni. Gelas kopi pun ade lagi, dah bersemut dah. Ishhh, g dapur, basuh, sambung gosok baju. Gantung elok2. Kemaskan baju gantung2... Masukkan seluar papa yang dah kotor dalam tempat kotor. Ok settle.

Dgr suara papa lagi..."I dah ngantuk ni.."

Dalam pada nak masuk ke bilik... Owh, pokok aku dah nak mati ni ha.. Lupa dah 3 hari tak siram... Ok, siram jap... Check jap pintu ni... Sah tak kunci lagi... Grill pun tak tutup.. Ni kalau tak check ni, senang2 je mat indon masuk rompak umah aku... Bukak lampu luar.

Ni mainan ni sepah2... Masukkan la dalam bakul mainan budak ni... Banyaknya... Sampai bawah meja makan pun ade... Adoi... Ok dah.

Ok dah boleh baring... Adoi sakitnya pinggang... Cium si comel ni kejap... Selimutkan die... La.. Napa basah ni... Emm, tukar la pempers ni... Tak bagus la brand ni, nanti nak tukar lain la... Nanti gi Sogo 25 hb ni beli la skali... Ok sayang tido k... Kalau boleh jangan la bangun tgh malam ni eh.. Tido sampai pagi k... Gud nite. Sweet dreams.

Aaahh... Sedapnya dapat baring... Mana pulak lotion sapu kurus aku nih...ha, ni dia...sambil sapu lotion kurus, setkan alarm... setkan program kerja besok. Pagi kul 9.30 ade meeting.. Ahh... Boring... Panas pulak lotion nih. Dah la... Mmm... sedapnya lelapkan mata...Ya Allah...terima kasih untuk rezekiMU hari ini, mohon keberkatan dari mu tuhan...papa pun bangun tutup tv...

"I dah ngantuk sangat ni...nak tido lah...citer pun tak best malam ni, bola pun takde..." Selang seminit. Dengar suara papa berkeruh. Dah agak dah....

So? Apa yang peliknya..?? Anda tahu kenapa wanita hidup lebih lama?...

SEBAB ADE BANYAK KERJA NAK KENA BUAT... tu yang tak boleh nak mati cepat tu...

Monday, August 4, 2008

I am sick??

When I was home after work last Thursday, I felt dizzy and almost fainted at our house front door. I lost my appetite and nausea.

9 p.m., I can't stand it anymore after 2 times throw-out. I ask my husband to take me to a clinic. The doctor said I got anemia because my blood pressure is low and my face is pale.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Headache..

My office will be moved to Taman Sutera Utama soon and it gives me a headache.

Hmm... Niz told me that he already filled the form to transfer to Jusco Bukit Indah which will be open by next year. At least he is reasonable to think that we really need to save our money for our children.

Yet, we haven't decide to move to Taman Sutera neighborhood. The rental there is expensive for us.

Plus, we need to find a new babysitter or maybe send them to a nursery? Oh, my. I don't know if we can afford it.

Abah called me today. Asking how am I and my children doing. He said that he is lonely at home when Mama and others are at school. I understand why. Fathin has already started her study at Cosmopoint, Muar. Sabrina is in form 5 and busy with her studies as she will be sitting for SPM this year. 'Adlina is in year 5. Idris is in UIA finishing his degree. Bahirah already living on her own in Lenga as she was posted as a teacher there. Nizam is working in Giant, Kluang. Nobody can accompany him in the morning. Pity him.

He also suggest me to send my children there to ease his loneliness. I don't know. I'm kinda used to my children at home with us. Especially Amir. He really needs us.

I am still thinking... Can't make up my mind this instant... I hope we could fine a better way to solve this matter.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Electricity is UP

Haha... At last, the electricity in the office is UP. I've been waiting for 2 weeks...!! Man, it's really a very long bored day.

Thre is a BUT... Our phoneline is still DOWN... Don't know when it will be up again.

Anyway, we are about to be shift to our new office in Taman Sutera Utama. Told by Wong LK that we might be move there in August. Still, not confirm yet. Can't get the exact date from anyone.

Really hope there would be many people working in the same office there. Kind of bored to be alone in the office everyday.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Tension Day

No electricity in the office today. I was looking at my mailbox and suddenly everything when black. Well, just another usual things happened here.

Unlucky me! I've to stay in the dark spooky office the whole day. Can't believe that I've to stay in the office. Hope our account department in HQ KL will settle this matter with TNB as soon as possible. Feels like I'm living in a cave or stoneage. He he he....

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Moonlight (Every Saturday, 10:00PM, TV9)

Owh my... I really like this series. Especially the handsome actor, Alex O'Loughlin, who is acting as Mick St. John. It's a sci-fi story about vampire and of course a vamp-human love is included too.

I've been searching in the internet to find out what would happen to their relationship and the vampires around them. Sadly, there are 16 episodes for the first season & no 2nd season will be available. I wonder if there is Moonlight 2nd season??

Below is the series synopsis I found at CBS.com.





Mick St. John is a captivating, charming and immortal private investigator from Los Angeles, who defies the traditional blood-sucking norms of his vampire tendencies by using his wit and powerful supernatural abilities to help the living.

In a life-altering twist of fate, Mick was "bitten" 60 years ago by his new bride, the seductive Coraline. Forever 30 years of age, Mick's as handsome and charismatic as the day he was "turned," and he eschews others of his kind who view humans only as a source of nourishment.

With only a handful of like-minded confidantes for company, including the eternally young, wealthy and mischievous Josef, a hedge fund trader who relishes his uniqueness, Mick fills his infinite days protecting the living.

One night years ago, a single act of kindness changed Mick when he saved a young girl's life, making him want to be a better vampire.

Now their paths cross again and Mick develops a distinctive bond with Beth Turner, who has grown into a beautiful, ambitious Internet investigative reporter. Reconnecting with her unleashes feelings Mick knows he can't pursue without exposing that part of him that would make him a monster in Beth's eyes.

As Mick lives between two realities, fighting his adversaries among the undead and falling in love, he discovers the mysteries and pleasures that a valuable life has to offer.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Cannot wait ke..!!!

I was chit chatting with Azlan about a logcall we had in JB.

It was logged as "pc cannot on" and I've passed the call to a service engineer from our ASP, Adnan.

Got an update about the call from Adnan this late evening saying that there is no such problem. He just went there to inspect and install printer. The ITD already performed all the necessary procedure for the new user as the previous user had left the service.

Why lah they don't put it as "to install printer & reconfigure".

Giving me a headache when Azlan told me that they log the case again in the evening... Why lah... Wait lah... Tak boleh tunggu ker?

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

1st Degree Burned..!!!

Last night, we went out for dinner with my MIL, SIL & BIL at Dataran, Johor Bahru. We have Yong Tau Fu. After the hot soup was served, Amir just can't wait to have it. He tried to grasp the hot soup bowl. In the end, the hot soup were spilled at his left leg.

Both, me and Nizam, were stunned and don't know what to do. Never thought it would happen anyway. Luckily, my MIL were there to help us out. She used ice to cool the burned area. As we were at the Dataran we couldn't find a running water. Took him to the nearest clinic because we can't afford to wait for ages at the General Hospital.

Nizam was so angry with Amir. Told him that Amir is still a little boy. He don't understand anything yet. Pity my little sunshine got scolded by his father.

After taking Amir to the clinic, we just go home as we've lost our appetite to eat and not in the mood to go anywhere.

That is how Amir got his 1st degree burned.

Yesterday, is history.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Malaikatmu.....

Suatu hari seorang bayi siap untuk dilahirkan ke dunia...

Dia bertanya kepada Tuhan : "Para malaikat disini mengatakan bahawa besok Engkau akan mengirimkan saya kedunia, tetapi bagaimana cara saya hidup disana; saya begitu kecil dan lemah ?"

Dan Tuhan menjawab: "Aku telah memilih satu malaikat untukmu. Ia akan menjaga dan mengasihimu ."

Bayi bertanya lagi: "Tetapi disini; didalam syurga ini, apa yang saya lakukan hanyalah bernyanyi, bermain dan tertawa...Inikan sudah cukup bagi saya untuk berbahagia."

"Malaikatmu akan bernyanyi dan tersenyum untukmu setiap hari. Dan kamu akan merasakan kehangatan cintanya dan menjadi lebih berbahagia"

"Dan bagaimana bisa saya mengerti disaat orang-orang berbicara kepada saya jika saya tidak mengerti bahasa mereka ?"

"Malaikatmu akan berbicara kepadamu dengan bahasa yang paling indah yang pernah kamu dengar; dan dengan penuh kesabaran dan perhatian. Dia akan mengajar kepadamu cara berbicara."

"Dan apa yang akan saya lakukan saat saya ingin berbicara kepadaMu ?"

"Malaikatmu akan mengajarkan bagaimana cara kamu berdoa"

"Saya mendengar bahawa di Bumi banyak orang jahat. Siapa yang akan melindungi saya ?"

"Malaikatmu akan melindungimu; walaupun hal tersebut mungkin akan mengancam jiwanya"

"Tapi, saya pasti akan merasa sedih kerana tidak melihatMu lagi"

"Malaikatmu akan menceritakan kepadamu tentang Aku, dan akan mengajarkan bagaimana agar kamu bisa kembali kepadaKu; walaupun sesungguhnya Aku akan sentiasa disisimu"

Disaat itu, Syurga begitu tenang dan heningnya sehingga suara dari Bumi dapat terdengar, dan sang bayi bertanya perlahan : "Tuhan, jika saya harus pergi sekarang, bisakah Kamu memberitahuku nama malaikat tersebut ?"

"Kamu akan memanggil malaikatmu itu: " IBU "

Ingatlah sentiasa kasih sayang dan pengorbanan ibu. Berbakti, berdoa dan cintailah dia sepanjang masa..... Dialah sesatunya harta yang tiada galang gantinya dunia akhirat....

Dan untuk para ibu, ingatlah kisah ini dikala kamu hilang sabar dengan karenah anak-anak yang sedang membesar....sesungguhnya Syurga itu dibawah telapak kakimu...

Sucikanlah 4 hal dengan 4 perkara :
1) Wajahmu dengan linangan air mata keinsafan,
2) Lidahmu basah dengan berzikir kepada Penciptamu,
3) Hatimu takut dan gementar kepada kehebatan Rabbmu, dan dosa-dosa yang silam
4) Di sulami dengan taubat kepada Dzat yang Memiliki mu."
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Something I found in wanitamelayu.com/forum
Posted by mysoul.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

My Children Today.

Amir Irsyad.

He is now in the process of learning to talk. Always copy whatever we said. So both girls & guys, please watch your language.

Likes going out and play very much. Can't even see us going out, he'll quickly look for his shoes to follow.


Nur Alya Nadirah.

My cute little sunshine. She would smile at me when I'm back from work.

Now, she is able to move from her side to back & back to side.

Monday, June 16, 2008

I HATE You... Yet I am still with you...


So angry today. Actually since yesterday.

I don't understand why would a man still go out to meet your friends and brothers at 2 am in the morning rather than helping out at home. Found it is hard for them to help out at that time they're needed. Seems it is too difficult for them. How sad...

Man, you only know what you want! But do you ever try to understand what a woman really want from you? You want them to be like this and like that. Could you sometime be what they want you to be? Could you please do this and that for them? Do what ever they ask? It's all only in the dreams. Can't even dreams a man doing that also!

Sometimes, I think I don't really need a man in my life. I'd rather be on my own.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Effects of cold water...


This is from an email I get from a friend of mine. Do take this as an advices to take a good care of ourselves. It is for our own good. So, please take note.
"For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this "sludge" reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

A serious note about heart attacks - You should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting. Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line. You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive."

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Banyak untung kalau kenal lelaki???

From: Azlan Ramli Md Said [azlanrms@sapura.com.my]
Sent: Monday, July 09, 2007 7:12 PM
To: Wan Nurul Ashikin V AIM Consulting; Noor Hafni Shahriruddin; Junainah Md Jan;
hazlina@tjgroup.com.my; cinta_ifa; Arfah Basir; Amy Salwani; ILi Nurdiana; doly darling;
Dyg Norasmeh
Subject: Banyak untung kalau kenal lelaki...

Banyak untung kalau kenal lelaki oleh DR. HM TUAH
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Jika suami anda menyendiri dan menjauhkan diri, ketahuilah dia dalam keadaan tertekan. Boleh jadi ada tekanan di tempat kerjanya, boleh jadi oleh kereta yang dimilikinya, atau boleh jadi beberapa kerenah anda yang menjadi menyebabnya. Meskipun begitu, usahlah risau, ia sekejap saja. Emosi pada orang lelaki umpama getah, sekejap saja telah kembali ke bentuk asal walaupun tadinya terhenyak pipih. Berbeza dengan anda bukan? Tatkala anda tertekan, emosi anda umpama ombak. Ombak memang tidak pernah reda, kalau reda pun mengambil masa yang lama.

Apabila lelaki suka menyendiri dan berdiam diri, biasanya disebabkan imejnya yang tergugat. Biarkan sahaja untuk tempoh-tempoh tertentu. Usah 'gatal-gatal' sangat memujuk. Kadang-kadang lelaki hanya perlukan 'tempoh bertenang' sebelum mengambil langkah seterusnya. Anda
kelam-kabut, maka itu anda mudah marah, cemburu dan merajuk apabila berdepan dalam situasi begini. Ohhh, itu silap.

Lelaki selalunya dapat menyesuaikan diri apabila menghadapi kesukaran, berbeza wanita biasanya cukup risau dalam keadaan demikian. Dan usah risau sangat kalau lelaki anda cuba berjauhan dari anda dalam keadaan-keadaan demikian sebab semula jadinya lelaki terasa selesa
berjauhan dengan keluarga. Ini tentu berbeza sekali dengan anda, yang suka dan berasa tenang bersama keluarga?

Mengapa lelaki begitu? Itulah bukti kekuasaan ALLAH. DIA menjadikan perbezaan yang ketara antara lelaki dengan wanita, agar apabila disatukan, terjalinlah satu bentuk kekuatan lantaran saling sempurna menyempurnakan - lengkap melengkapi. Semua kekurangan isteri akan
dipenuhi oleh suami dan semua kekurangan suami akan dipenuhi pula oleh isteri.

Lihat perbezaan sebagai sebab untuk sempurna menyempurnakan bukan jurang kedegilan untuk tidak mahu memahami.

Lelaki itu cara fikirnya makro, iaitu dia melihat secara keseluruhan, sedangkan anda para wanita mempunyai penilaian bersifat mikro iaitu melihat sesuatu secara terperinci. Maka itu, usah hairan, terkadang suami selamba dengan masalah yang anda rasakan cukup berat. Anda telah
kering air mata sedangkan dia masih belum menitis walau sebutir pun air mata.

Jika berlaku pertengkaran selalunya dia akan melawan habis-habisan dan anda pula mengalah dan pura-pura setuju demi perhubungan. Usah terasa teruk sangat dengan keadaan ini, lelaki memang begitu, sentiasa mahu menang dan mahu sentiasa dilihat menang walaupun hatinya mengakui kesilapannya dan mahu berubah mengikut apa yang anda perkatakan.

Walaupun anda tahu anda benar dan anda tidak pernah berbuat salah, akhirilah semua pertengkaran dan perselisihan dengan anda yang meminta maaf. Anda mahukan dia yang meminta maaf? Usah harap. Lelaki memang berat untuk meminta maaf terutama daripada pasangannya. Ikut kajian, wanita lebih mudah meminta maaf dalam keadaan apa jua dan atas hal apa jua, maka gunakan kelebihan ini untuk lebih mudah meminta maaf walaupun tidak bersalah.

Satu lagi yang anda patut tahu tentang lelaki ialah mereka memang suka memberi arahan bagaikan ketua yang mempunyai kuasa. Usah dilawan, tapi layanlah hati sendiri dengan berleter hingga anda sendiri berasa puas. Tapi awas, jangan sampai berleter di hadapannya, itu boleh memburukkan keadaan.

Kata orang, wanita sinonim dengan leteran. Kalau tak pandai berleter bukan wanita namanya. Ya, teruskan saja berleter, hamburkan semua yang menekan kepala. Cuma mohon berleter di dalam bilik yang tertutup, sebab kucing pun pening dengan leteran anda.

Lelaki memang rimas dengan leteran dan cepat naik darah apabila asyik dileteri. Lihatlah betapa berbezanya anda dengan suami. Tidakkah anda setuju jika saya katakan, adalah amat beruntung jika anda tahu lebih banyak tentang lelaki?

Kecantikan Lelaki
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Kecantikan seorang lelaki bukan kepada rupa fizikal tetapi pada murni rohani. Lelaki yang cantik, adalah:-

1) Lelaki yang mampu mengalirkan airmata untuk ingatan
2) Lelaki yang sedia menerima segala teguran
3) Lelaki yang memberi madu, setelah menerima racun
4) Lelaki yang tenang dan lapang dada
5) Lelaki yang baik sangka
6) Lelaki yang tak pernah putus asa

Kecantikan lelaki berdiri di atas kemuliaan hati. Seluruh kecantikan yang ada pada Nabi Muhammad adalah kecantikan yang sempurna seorang lelaki.

Kegagahan Wanita
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Kegagahan seorang wanita bukan kepada pejal otot badan, tetapi pada Kekuatan perasaan. Perempuan yang gagah, adalah:-

1) Perempuan yang tahan menerima sebuah kehilangan
2) Perempuan yang tidak takut pada kemiskinan
3) Perempuan yang tabah menanggung kerinduan setelah ditinggalkan
4) Perempuan yang tidak meminta-minta agar dipenuhi segala keinginan.

Kegagahan perempuan berdiri di atas teguh iman. Seluruh kegagahan yang ada pada Khadijah adalah kegagahan sempurna bagi seorang perempuan.
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~ Azlan Ramli Md Said ~

Friday, June 13, 2008

Food as medicine.

HEADACHE? EAT FISH!
Eat plenty of fish -- fish oil helps prevent headaches. So does ginger, which reduces inflammation and pain.

HAY FEVER? EAT YOGURT!
Eat lots of yogurt before pollen season. Also-eat honey from your area (local region) daily.

TO PREVENT STROKE DRINK TEA!
Prevent buildup of fatty deposits on artery walls with regular doses of tea. (actually, tea suppresses my appetite and keeps the pounds from invading....Green tea is great for our immune system)!

INSOMNIA (CAN'T SLEEP?) HONEY!
Use honey as a tranquilizer and sedative.

ASTHMA? EAT ONIONS!!!!
Eating onions helps ease constriction of bronchial tubes. (when I was young, my mother would make onion packs to place on our chest, helped the respiratory ailments and actually made us breathe better).

ARTHRITIS? EAT FISH, TOO!!
Salmon, tuna, mackerel and sardines actually prevent arthritis. (fish has omega oils, good for our immune system)

UPSET STOMACH? BANANAS - GINGER!!!!!
Bananas will settle an upset stomach. Ginger will cure morning sickness and nausea.

BLADDER INFECTION? DRINK CRANBERRY JUICE!!!!
High-acid cranberry juice controls harmful bacteria.

BONE PROBLEMS? EAT PINEAPPLE!!!
Bone fractures and osteoporosis can be prevented by the manganese in pineapple.

PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME? EAT CORNFLAKES!!!!
Women can ward off the effects of PMS with cornflakes, which help reduce depression, anxiety and fatigue.

MEMORY PROBLEMS? EAT OYSTERS!
Oysters help improve your mental functioning by supplying much-needed zinc.

COLDS? EAT GARLIC!
Clear up that stuffy head with garlic. (remember, garlic lowers cholesterol, too.)

COUGHING? USE RED PEPPERS!!
A substance similar to that found in the cough syrups is found in hot red pepper.. Use red (cayenne) pepper with caution-it can irritate your tummy.

BREAST CANCER? EAT Wheat, bran and cabbage.
Helps to maintain estrogen at healthy levels.

LUNG CANCER? EAT DARK GREEN AND ORANGE AND VEGGIES!!!
A good antidote is beta carotene, a form of Vitamin A found in dark green and orange vegetables.

ULCERS? EAT CABBAGE ALSO!!!
Cabbage contains chemicals that help heal both gastric and duodenal ulcers.

DIARRHEA? EAT APPLES!
Grate an apple with its skin, let it turn brown and eat it to cure this condition. (Bananas are good for this ailment)

CLOGGED ARTERIES? EAT AVOCADO!
Mono unsaturated fat in avocados lowers cholesterol.

HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE? EAT CELERY AND OLIVE OIL!!!
Olive oil has been shown to lower blood pressure. Celery contains a chemical that lowers pressure too.

BLOOD SUGAR IMBALANCE? EAT BROCCOLI AND PEANUTS!!!
The chromium in broccoli and peanuts helps regulate insulin and blood sugar.

Kiwi: Tiny but mighty. This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, Vitamin E &fiber. It's Vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.

Apple: An apple a day keeps the doctor away? Although an apple has a low Vitamin C content, it has antioxidants &flavonoids which enhances the activity of Vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke.

Strawberry: Protective fruit. Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits &protects the body from cancer causing, blood vessels clogging free radicals. (Actually, any berry is good for you..they're high in anti-oxidants and they actually keep us young.........blueberries are the best and very versatile in the health field........they get rid of all the free-radicals that invade our bodies)

Orange: Sweetest medicine. Taking 2 - 4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessen the risk of colon cancer.

Watermelon: Coolest Thirst Quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione which helps boost our immune system. They are also a key source of lycopene - the cancer fighting oxidant. Other nutrients found in watermelon are Vitamin C &Potassium. (watermelon also has natural substances [natural SPF sources] that keep our skin healthy, protecting our skin from those darn suv rays)

Guava &Papaya: Top awards for Vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high Vitamin C content. Guava is also rich in fiber which helps prevent constipation. Papaya is rich in carotene, this is good for your eyes. (also good for gas and indigestion) Tomatoes are very good as a preventative measure for men, keeps those prostrate problems from invading their bodies.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

UPGRADE FROM BOYFRIEND TO HUSBAND

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a slow down in the overall performance, particularly in the flower, gifts and jewelery applications that had operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 un-installed many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, but installed undesirable programs such as Formula One 5.0, NBA 3.0 and World Cup 2.0.

And now Conversation 8.0 no longer runs and House Cleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail.What can I do?

Signed,
Desperate Housewife


Reply:
Dear Desperate Housewife,

First keep in mind:
Boyfriend 5.0 is an entertainment package, while Husband 1.0 is an operating system.

Try entering the command C:\ I THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME and download Tears 6.2 to install Guilt 3.0.

If all works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewelery 2.0 and Flowers 3.5.

But remember, overuse can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Late Night Teh Tarik 6.1.

Late Night 6.1 is a very bad program that will create SnoringLoudly.wav files.

Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in-Law 1.0 or reinstall another Boyfriend program. These are not supported applications and will crash Husband 1.0.

In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have a limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly.

You might consider additional software to improve memory and performance. I personally recommend Hot Tasty Food 3.0 and Tongkat Ali 6.9.

Good Luck,
IT Support

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Happy Birthday Mama & 2nd Year FIL Death Anniversary

Dear Mama,

It's your birthday today and I can't be there with you,
but I am sending you a special wish and a little prayer from afar.

Happy birthday Mama and I hope that all your birthday wishes will come true.

Have a great day and find happiness in everything that you do.

Love,
Your eldest daughter.


Happy Birthday to Mak Long Esah too..!!

Also, remembering my late father-in-law, Abd. Aziz bin Ibrahim...
Al-Fatihah... May Allah bless you..

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Yeay... Holiday...!!

Just came back from a holiday. So tired, yet I am happy and a little sad.

Since Nizam had a cooling period to renew his contract at AEON Jusco, I took 2 days leave plus weekend to be with my family. So glad that I got to go to Port Dickson for a holiday with my family. Yup, with my parents, 2 younger sisters and my younger brother. We stayed at KAYNS Resort. It's situated near the sea with a beautiful scenery.

The day we are going to PD, we received a bad news from Auty Ciat. Uncle Razak had a heart attack!! He is hospitalised in Klang. For now, he is not in a good condition. We all hope he'll get well soon.

Friday, June 6, 2008

Hati Seorang Yang Bernama WANITA...

From: Azlan Ramli Md Said
Sent: Friday, June 22, 2007 8:36 AM
To: doly; ILi Nurdiana; Dyg Norasmeh
Subject: ...hati seorang bernama WANITA.
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1. Sensitif : Bukan bermaksud suka merajuk, tapi hanya ingin bermanja dan mendapatkan perhatian.

2. Cerewet : Bukan bermaksud FUSSY tak tentu hala, kadang ingin LELAKI mengikut kata-katanya sekali sekala.

3. Halus : Ibarat sehelai sutera, cantik, mulus, lembut dan mudah tercarik dan koyak. Walaupun seorang wanita memaafkan seseorang yang lain atas sebab sesalahan, biasanya WANITA akan ingat kesalahan tersebut untuk disimpan jadi pengajaran. Bukan DENDAM.

4. Ikhlas : Ikhlas seorang wanita tak perlu diragui.

5. Korban : WANITA sanggup berkorban apa saja untuk seseorang yang amat disayangi,
termasuk ibu bapa, anak-anak dan suami. WANITA amat tabah.

6. Prihatin : Sentiasa memerhatikan keadaan sekeliling dalam diam.

7. Manja : Walaupun dia adalah seorang WANITA yang pandai berdikari, naluri seorang WANITA masih lagi tetap seorang WANITA. Suka bermanja bukan hanya kepada insan yang bernama LELAKI , namun juga sesama kaum.

8. Ego : WANITA yang terlalu sayangkan kekasihnya sanggup menolak ketepi EGOnya apabila bersemuka dengan yang dicintai.

9. Cinta : CINTA pertama bagi wanita adalah yang paling dalam dan tulus.

10. Seks : SEKs bukanlah segala-galanya buat WANITA kerana WANITA diciptakan dengan
9 nafsu dan satu akal. NAFSU yang banyak dan tidak tertumpu kepada satu saja. LELAKI pula dijadikan dengan 9 akal dan satu nafsu. Fungsi lelaki adalah membimbing WANITA dan
bukan menghanyutkannya.

** "Peranan LELAKI dalam kehidupan WANITA adalah sebagai pelindung dan bukan sebagai
pemusnah. WANITA diciptakan oleh ALLAH swt dari tulang rusuk kiri dan untuk dipeluk dan dimanja, bukan untuk dikasari.


"Maka lelaki haruslah memahami HATI dan PERASAAN WANITA"
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~ Azlan Ramli Md Said ~

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Our 3rd Year Wedding Anniversary

Today is our wedding aniversary. We're not celebrating it as we need to save some money in case the petrol price will increase in the future.

3 years marriage, we already have a complete family... A son and a daughter.

Friday, May 30, 2008

I need a break...

I am sooo tired & really need a break. This coming 06-06-2008, we're going to visit my parents in Muar. We might go to Port Dickson together just have to take a break.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

What a life?

Checking my salary online account today, thank goodness there's the money. Just like what Kak Shera said,"It was just like using the 'Touch n Go' card." Which means, the day we're paid is the day we'll finish it just like. Only to pay our debt and a little extra to live which includes petrol, groceries and etc.

Owh, still thinking what to do and still looking for a good salary job. Can't bear to live like this anymore. My children will go to school in the future and we will need more money for them.

Monday, May 26, 2008

My baby is sick..?!!

I'm so glad that my baby is getting better...

25 May 2008.
We when to Labis to attend Nizam's cousin's wedding reception at

24 May 2008.
Attended Siti Norbahirah wedding. She is Nizam's cousin.

23 May 2008.
My baby still had a fever and I' worried. If this continue till tomorrow I told Nizam to take her to the hospital.

I am grateful that her fever starting to cool off in the evening. Hope she'll fully recover by tomorrow.

22 May 2008.
Woke up at 5 am and noticed that my baby had a hot fever!! I am so scared and hope nothing bad will happen to her. Took her to a clinic near our house and found her body temperature is 38.6 celsius. The doctor did refer her to HSA but Nizam said he can't stand to see the doctor taking his child's blood.

So, we took her back to Kluang and ask my mother-in-law for an advice. In the evening, we took her to see the 'tukang urut'. After that, I saw Nad's smile again.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

DI SEBALIK KEINDAHAN PASANGAN KITA

From: Azlan Ramli Md Said
Sent: Friday, June 22, 2007 8:44 AM
To: ILi Nurdiana
Subject: DI SEBALIK KEINDAHAN PASANGAN KITA.
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ADA kalanya seseorang memiliki pasangan hidup berparas menarik tetapi cakapnya pedas lagi menyinggung.

Ada pasangannya rupawan, bahasanya sedap didengar tetapi sangat boros.

Ada pula pasangannya indah dan jimat tetapi malas beribadah.

Kerencaman dalam mencari jodoh ini pernah diibaratkan dalam satu hadis:
"Manusia itu seperti unta. Antara 100 ekor unta, sangat sulit kamu menemukan seekor yang sangat baik tunggangannya."
(Hadis riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim).

Pasangan ideal memang sukar diperolehi dalam zaman penuh dugaan.

Ada gadis yang mengeluh kerana sudah penat mencari calon suami yang berkelayakan, gagah dan lawa, tenang dan lembut serta kuat beribadah.

Ada teruna mengeluh sukar mencari calon isteri yang cantik, senang dipandang, sabar, jimat, suka beribadah dan pandai mengambil hati ibunya.

Nasihat Rasulullah saw berkenaan kekurangan yang ada pada pasangan kita:
"Hendaknya seorang Mukmin tidak meninggalkan seorang Mukminah. Kalau dia membenci suatu perangai pada diri isterinya, dia pasti menyenangi perangai yang lain."

Pesan Rasulullah sejajar dengan firman Allah:
"Kemudian apabila kamu tidak menyukai mereka, (maka bersabarlah) kerana mungkin kamu tidak menyukai sesuatu, padahal Allah menjadikan padanya kebaikan yang banyak.'

(An-Nisaa: 19)

Sebagai pasangan (baik suami mahupun isteri), janganlah kita membiarkan begitu saja beberapa aib atau kekurangan pasangan kita. Alasan bahawa sikap sudah begitu sejak mula - tidak boleh dipakai sama sekali.

Sikap manusia boleh diubah selagi ia sanggup merubahnya. Suami hendaklah berdakwah kepada isteri dan begitu juga sebaliknya.

"Serulah (manusia) kepada jalan Tuhanmu dengan hikmah dan pelajaran yang baik dan bantahlah mereka dengan cara yang baik. Sesungguhnya Tuhanmu Dialah yang lebih mengetahui tentang siapa yang tersesat dari jalan-Nya dan Dialah yang lebih mengetahui orang-orang yang mendapat petunjuk."
(Surah An-Nahl:125).

Dakwah paling asas adalah dengan pasangan kita sebagaimana Rasulullah saw menyampaikan kisah baginda menerima wahyu kepada isterinya, Khadijah. Ia diikuti dengan anak-anak dan orang-orang terdekat.

Oleh itu, suami/isteri perlu menggilap cara merubah sikap pasangan dengan cara paling elok menunjukkan contoh dan hujah. Kekasaran atau pukul bantai tidak boleh dibuat untuk memaksa seseorang berubah. Selain ikhlas dalam menasihati, penting pula ikhlas dalam menerima nasihat. Ketika kita dinasihati, hendaknya kita kendalikan serta lunakkan hati kita untuk ikhlas menerimanya.

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~ Azlan Ramli Md Said ~
Sapura Service Desk

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Duit, duit, duit..!!!

Still thinking what to do to get extra money. I don't think we can live happily when all the groceries prices are rising.

What can you get with RM50 today?
As for me, RM50 is not enough for my 2 children. Their formula milk is already +/- RM40/tin. Pampers, RM30/pack. It's crazy man..!!? Who do they think we are? Banker? Millionaire? Trillionaire? Or money-stamper??!!

What a life!!

19 May 2008.
Wesak Day...

It's a public holiday for me but not for my sweetheart. So, I just do some house work and have a good rest.

18 May 2008.
My parents came down to Johor Bahru to visit their grand-children with my younger sister, Ili Nur Sabrina and younger brother, Mohd. Nizam. They really missed my children. It has been quite a long time since Nadirah is 1 month old.

We went to Jusco Permas Jaya together to buy some groceries and Mama treat me for my birthday at Sedap Corner. The food there is quite expensive. Maybe because they're using big plate & bowl.

Amir follow my parents back to Muar. I think his great-grand-mother missed him too.

17 May 2008.


16 May 2008.
Happy Teacher's Day to Mama (Norzabedah Elizabeth), Ili Nur Bahirah and all teachers out there. "Guru Cemerlang, Murid Terbilang". I hope all the teachers will work hard to teach the Malaysian children.

"The task of the excellent teacher is to stimulate "apparently ordinary" people to unusual effort. The tough problem is not in identifying winners: it is in making winners out of ordinary people." ~K. Patricia Cross

"The dream begins with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called 'truth'." ~Dan Rather

Had to take an emergency leave today to takecare of my children. The babysitter had fever.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

My Birthday

Firstly, this blog is a gift to a friend who encourage me to blog in order to fill my free time. I hope he's happy to read this.

It happens to be my birthday today and both of us share the same date but in a different month.

As a women, I am complete with a loving husband, 1 adorable son and 1 cute daughter. I do hope I could be a very good mother for my children.

What I really want now is to finish my degree.