Friday, May 30, 2008

I need a break...

I am sooo tired & really need a break. This coming 06-06-2008, we're going to visit my parents in Muar. We might go to Port Dickson together just have to take a break.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

What a life?

Checking my salary online account today, thank goodness there's the money. Just like what Kak Shera said,"It was just like using the 'Touch n Go' card." Which means, the day we're paid is the day we'll finish it just like. Only to pay our debt and a little extra to live which includes petrol, groceries and etc.

Owh, still thinking what to do and still looking for a good salary job. Can't bear to live like this anymore. My children will go to school in the future and we will need more money for them.

Monday, May 26, 2008

My baby is sick..?!!

I'm so glad that my baby is getting better...

25 May 2008.
We when to Labis to attend Nizam's cousin's wedding reception at

24 May 2008.
Attended Siti Norbahirah wedding. She is Nizam's cousin.

23 May 2008.
My baby still had a fever and I' worried. If this continue till tomorrow I told Nizam to take her to the hospital.

I am grateful that her fever starting to cool off in the evening. Hope she'll fully recover by tomorrow.

22 May 2008.
Woke up at 5 am and noticed that my baby had a hot fever!! I am so scared and hope nothing bad will happen to her. Took her to a clinic near our house and found her body temperature is 38.6 celsius. The doctor did refer her to HSA but Nizam said he can't stand to see the doctor taking his child's blood.

So, we took her back to Kluang and ask my mother-in-law for an advice. In the evening, we took her to see the 'tukang urut'. After that, I saw Nad's smile again.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

DI SEBALIK KEINDAHAN PASANGAN KITA

From: Azlan Ramli Md Said
Sent: Friday, June 22, 2007 8:44 AM
To: ILi Nurdiana
Subject: DI SEBALIK KEINDAHAN PASANGAN KITA.
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ADA kalanya seseorang memiliki pasangan hidup berparas menarik tetapi cakapnya pedas lagi menyinggung.

Ada pasangannya rupawan, bahasanya sedap didengar tetapi sangat boros.

Ada pula pasangannya indah dan jimat tetapi malas beribadah.

Kerencaman dalam mencari jodoh ini pernah diibaratkan dalam satu hadis:
"Manusia itu seperti unta. Antara 100 ekor unta, sangat sulit kamu menemukan seekor yang sangat baik tunggangannya."
(Hadis riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim).

Pasangan ideal memang sukar diperolehi dalam zaman penuh dugaan.

Ada gadis yang mengeluh kerana sudah penat mencari calon suami yang berkelayakan, gagah dan lawa, tenang dan lembut serta kuat beribadah.

Ada teruna mengeluh sukar mencari calon isteri yang cantik, senang dipandang, sabar, jimat, suka beribadah dan pandai mengambil hati ibunya.

Nasihat Rasulullah saw berkenaan kekurangan yang ada pada pasangan kita:
"Hendaknya seorang Mukmin tidak meninggalkan seorang Mukminah. Kalau dia membenci suatu perangai pada diri isterinya, dia pasti menyenangi perangai yang lain."

Pesan Rasulullah sejajar dengan firman Allah:
"Kemudian apabila kamu tidak menyukai mereka, (maka bersabarlah) kerana mungkin kamu tidak menyukai sesuatu, padahal Allah menjadikan padanya kebaikan yang banyak.'

(An-Nisaa: 19)

Sebagai pasangan (baik suami mahupun isteri), janganlah kita membiarkan begitu saja beberapa aib atau kekurangan pasangan kita. Alasan bahawa sikap sudah begitu sejak mula - tidak boleh dipakai sama sekali.

Sikap manusia boleh diubah selagi ia sanggup merubahnya. Suami hendaklah berdakwah kepada isteri dan begitu juga sebaliknya.

"Serulah (manusia) kepada jalan Tuhanmu dengan hikmah dan pelajaran yang baik dan bantahlah mereka dengan cara yang baik. Sesungguhnya Tuhanmu Dialah yang lebih mengetahui tentang siapa yang tersesat dari jalan-Nya dan Dialah yang lebih mengetahui orang-orang yang mendapat petunjuk."
(Surah An-Nahl:125).

Dakwah paling asas adalah dengan pasangan kita sebagaimana Rasulullah saw menyampaikan kisah baginda menerima wahyu kepada isterinya, Khadijah. Ia diikuti dengan anak-anak dan orang-orang terdekat.

Oleh itu, suami/isteri perlu menggilap cara merubah sikap pasangan dengan cara paling elok menunjukkan contoh dan hujah. Kekasaran atau pukul bantai tidak boleh dibuat untuk memaksa seseorang berubah. Selain ikhlas dalam menasihati, penting pula ikhlas dalam menerima nasihat. Ketika kita dinasihati, hendaknya kita kendalikan serta lunakkan hati kita untuk ikhlas menerimanya.

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~ Azlan Ramli Md Said ~
Sapura Service Desk

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Duit, duit, duit..!!!

Still thinking what to do to get extra money. I don't think we can live happily when all the groceries prices are rising.

What can you get with RM50 today?
As for me, RM50 is not enough for my 2 children. Their formula milk is already +/- RM40/tin. Pampers, RM30/pack. It's crazy man..!!? Who do they think we are? Banker? Millionaire? Trillionaire? Or money-stamper??!!

What a life!!

19 May 2008.
Wesak Day...

It's a public holiday for me but not for my sweetheart. So, I just do some house work and have a good rest.

18 May 2008.
My parents came down to Johor Bahru to visit their grand-children with my younger sister, Ili Nur Sabrina and younger brother, Mohd. Nizam. They really missed my children. It has been quite a long time since Nadirah is 1 month old.

We went to Jusco Permas Jaya together to buy some groceries and Mama treat me for my birthday at Sedap Corner. The food there is quite expensive. Maybe because they're using big plate & bowl.

Amir follow my parents back to Muar. I think his great-grand-mother missed him too.

17 May 2008.


16 May 2008.
Happy Teacher's Day to Mama (Norzabedah Elizabeth), Ili Nur Bahirah and all teachers out there. "Guru Cemerlang, Murid Terbilang". I hope all the teachers will work hard to teach the Malaysian children.

"The task of the excellent teacher is to stimulate "apparently ordinary" people to unusual effort. The tough problem is not in identifying winners: it is in making winners out of ordinary people." ~K. Patricia Cross

"The dream begins with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called 'truth'." ~Dan Rather

Had to take an emergency leave today to takecare of my children. The babysitter had fever.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

My Birthday

Firstly, this blog is a gift to a friend who encourage me to blog in order to fill my free time. I hope he's happy to read this.

It happens to be my birthday today and both of us share the same date but in a different month.

As a women, I am complete with a loving husband, 1 adorable son and 1 cute daughter. I do hope I could be a very good mother for my children.

What I really want now is to finish my degree.